Someone please help me here. I just found out that my exboyfriend (we broke up in July of 2000), who is still trying to get back together with me, even though we haven't seen each other in 3 1/2 years went out and bought me a really big, really expensive engagement ring. He also bought me a matching necklace and a cell phone. I think he might have mentioned a DVD player too. Why, why why? When contact between us resumed in April I told him there was no future relationship for us. And if it hadn't been for a close family member of his having terminal cancer, I probably wouldn't have had any further contact. But I made the mistake of trying to be a friend, and now this. He says my idea of love and relationships is just skewed. Maybe, but since he still has a girlfriend name Mary Jane and can't seem to dump her, what is a girl to do? I just want to find an intelligent man, with a career (or in school), who is funny, caring and has life goals, other than wanting to be Peter Pan (yes, my ex actually said that).
Well, thank you for letting me vent. I'm sure not all men are that dense and sooner or later my Idiot will come.