tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7284969.post115431011623875943..comments2023-10-07T09:19:23.938-05:00Comments on Birds, Books and a Bean: Break upStaciahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03864188943134274344noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7284969.post-1154318566100828482006-07-30T23:02:00.000-05:002006-07-30T23:02:00.000-05:00wow, insane! i am very proud of you for going thro...wow, insane! i am very proud of you for going through with honesty; i usually pussy out and avoid confrontation, so good for you for telling her the truth. i think you will start to feel more relieved than bad in rather short order. meanwhile, i have NO IDEA what andrea's deal is. like here i am, trying to GET her motives, and i just don't! did she just enjoy having you around as a punching bag, to blame for her own shortcomings? i just don't get it -- but good for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7284969.post-1154313481803494622006-07-30T21:38:00.000-05:002006-07-30T21:38:00.000-05:00I think it's normal for you to feel bad. You do h...I think it's normal for you to feel bad. You do have a history with Andrea and I know you would have preferred that this never had happened and that you could have worked things out. That being said, this was her own doing. This is something she has quite literally done to herself. In that sense, you should not feel bad even one little bit. The whole rouse about her wedding is complete BS - I was shocked that she went ahead and scheduled it when she knew you were going to be gone.... an early indicator perhaps. I know this was and is hard but in the long run it will save you much grief. I love you and always will.Bart's Camillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03248621766328424130noreply@blogger.com